Benefits of having a relationship???  

seanmkim 4/8/2008 1:20 am Last Read: 5/7/2008 11:47 pm	So I went out with my friend and her friend this past weekend and was having good conversations over yummy Thai food. She was very cute although she didn't have a booty I look for in a girl. Anyways, we talked about lots of different things and she happened to be a good conversationalist which I value a lot and I was thinking...hmmm...maybe I should date this girl... We started talking about benefits of having a relationship from two different perspectives and one thing she mentioned kinda bothered me. She said she enjoys a reduction in expenses when she has a relationship 'cause her guy will pay for a lot of things she'd have otherwise which happens a lot in relationships. I pay for most of expenses when I'm in a relationship...heck, I pay a lot even when I just go out with my friends and I don't mind it at all not because I'm loaded but because I enjoy good company and my parents taught me how to give but man when this girl said that, I was really turned off for whatever reason. I didn't ask for her number nor did I pay for the dinner. We went dutch.
frenchguy38 813 posts  4/8/2008 7:29 pm	LOL Korn I'm in the same "basket" too
bahram1 Ask me for a photo 105 posts  4/10/2008 5:29 pm	Women are so calculating...
sweetpepe 1329 posts  4/11/2008 4:34 pm	One axiom that I know is that what s beautiful to a man is not necessarily beautiful to a woman.... but to make Sean feel a little better I say: NO ASS, NO CLASS!!!
xylyl22 27 posts  4/14/2008 9:56 am	I don’t get this girl, but is always in most cases expected that the man pay for the date Spence, but sometimes, personally, I don’t mind at all paying at all, Like this pass weekend I went out few times with my date, in one occasion I asked him if he will not feel offended if I pay for lunch at that time, he dint let me but I was willing to do it, so to me sometimes have to be 50/50 I a relationship. So people don’t take advantage over someone else pocket… (Good that you didn’t pay for dinner that day lol) I wouldn’t neither lol