I think I'm old enough but still don't understand women...  

seanmkim 4/29/2008 10:48 pm Last Read: 5/21/2008 10:25 pm	One of my ex girlfriends called me today and told me she's going to San Francisco to see her boyfriend's parents this weekend. She said she would marry him and I congratulated her. I met her 2 weeks after I moved to San Diego almost 3 years ago and dated her for about 4 months. Things were going well until she asked me what my new year's resolution was and told me what hers was. Mine was pretty generic but hers was very specific which was getting married and guess what happened. We broke up. lol I swear I wasn't the one who broke up with her. It was her 'cause she didn't want to keep the relationship when she knew it wasn't going anywhere. We made up and broke up a couple more times but eventually it didn't work out. She's been calling me on and off and she finally met another guy and I guess now she's ready to settle down. I didn't think I hurt her that much but I guess I did? Why would she even bother to call me to let me know she's getting married and will be so happy? Is this some sort of revenge or what? lol I mean I'm happy for her but honestly, I kinda felt bad 'cause I don't really care about her marriage. I don't think many guys will do this but a lot of girls do this for whatever reason or is she one of the few girls who would do this? Well, I don't know but if you are even thinking about calling your ex and telling him how happy you will be, please don't. I'll telling you it won't get you what you want. You'll be better off just forgetting about the past and making a good plan on your future.
zenriver 210 posts  4/30/2008 2:59 am	Maybe she wants you to come to the wedding and wisk her away before she ties the knot?
bintijua 406 posts  4/30/2008 6:43 am	Maybe these ex girlfriends and wives are saying goodbye for good. If one has children with the ex-wife, it'd be better to know what's going on with her for the children's sake... ie; how this new arrangement of living situation would affect the children, etc. Good to know the guys' view though. My ex-bf calls me now and then to talk about his present relationship. I listen and try give him my objective point of view which he seems to appreciate. I don't see why one cannot remain friends with ex boyfriends and ex girlfriends.
sweetpepe 1329 posts  4/30/2008 9:38 am	Sean....the beginning of understanding women is realizing that they simply are NOT understandable. They are IRRATIONAL specie.... once you give up trying to understand them, you begin to feel freedom. I DID.
christine2007 Ask me for a photo 189 posts  4/30/2008 10:07 am	sean, maybe, she justs want to finally close the book on you and your relationship with her... And, maybe also to let you know you will never hear from her again??? (even a hint to never call her again?) Christine
bintijua 406 posts  5/2/2008 6:36 am	Who says women are IRRATIONAL? Isn't that type of remark considered a sexist?
xylyl22 27 posts  5/7/2008 8:35 pm	That sounds like a movie title: "THE REVENGE OF MY EX-GIRLFRIEND" In theaters next fall……lol