2 types of unavailable men...  

sabeeneh 3/27/2008 12:58 am Last Read: 3/29/2008 9:45 pm	Tonight I had dinner with one of my girl friends...Our conversations ranged from family, work, hobbies, and guys and gay guys… We talked about patterns and type of guys one tends to date, if any…Along the conversation, the word “available” and "unavailable" came up… There seem to be two types of guys who are not “available”: guys who might be successful with their career with financial stability OR guys who are available physically, meaning, they have time to spend with you but too broke to do anything…I guess what we really want is little bit of both, you know the word, “moderation”… I was telling her that I didn’t mind dating guys who were broke, car less(yes in los angeles…lol), and/or with dead end jobs when I was in twenties, not even early thirties since I always emphasized about their personality, character, etc…but as I’m approaching my 40s, I do not want to date guys who seem to be “struggling” still…guys who are in 30s plus who are going through “changes in life”… just a thought...
sweetpepe 1329 posts  3/27/2008 6:37 am	I am all set financially... my mom gives me plenty of milk money~
frenchguy38 813 posts  3/27/2008 12:39 pm	Hello Sabeene, Being available is easy... just that winning the lottery is difficult... Beautiful day to you