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4/22/2008 9:29 pm Last Read: |
* DO NOT DISCRIMINATE AGAINST PPL U R NOT ATTRACTED TO @ FIRST SIGHT... U'D NEVER KNOW UNTIL U GET 2 KNOW THE PERSON... HE/SHE MITE TURN OUT TO B UR SOULMATE  * DO NOT HESITATE TO APPROACH SOMEONE DAT INTERESTS U... SOMEONE ELSE WILL BEAT U TO HIM/HER WHILE U R HESITATING  * INNER BEAUTY IS MORE IMPORTANT THAN OUTER BEAUTY IS WUT U ALWAYS HEAR ... BUT DON'T B A FOOL... APPEARANCE'S WUT GETS U NOTICED~ SO DO SPEND EXTRA EFFORT TO MAKE URSELF AS APPEALING AS POSSIBLE  READ THESE GUIDELINES FROM SOMEWHERE & WANTED TO SHARE W/ SINGLES ON KFF... HOPE THEY COME HANDY!!! 
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5/14/2008 10:16 pm |
y NOT????? & y NOT ?????  
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5/13/2008 11:34 pm |
Can a joong cut his own hair? Can a single person give this advice? lol
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5/6/2008 7:21 pm |
Jamie. I understand what you said. And I agree. Thank you once again. I hope things are going better in your personal life. Kisses* je te veux. "If I could lead you into the promised land, i could lead you back out again."
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5/3/2008 10:41 pm |
Dear Jamie I apologize for my late reply. I have been busy and didn't had enough time to reply to any of blogs in this site. I definitely won't disagree with your view. However I won't necessarily agree that it is either physical appearance or personality that will determine attracting others. I have seen people with both qualities and yet still can't attract others. I have used the term "deeper intuition of attraction" which "cannot be spoken" and thus be "pass to silence" as invisible chemistry. So in other word, the question can be whether if someone is attracted to Jamie, is he attracted to Jamie's physical appearance or Jamie's personality? However in my view, what is the more important which is more fundamental and unconditional is whether someone is attracted to Jamie herself. It's not "what" they are attracted(physical appearance and personality as well as other material possessions are both "what" of someone) to but rather "who" they are attracted to. I recently heard from Korean T.V. that "love is not something that one find but love is something that visits one." And when there is a development of chemistry in the most unexpected moment and the most unexpected way, it really won't be the matter of physical appearance or personality. However, I do agree with the importance of keeping in shape for physical appearance and personality because they are also very good tools for developing one's own confidence. I personally have deep problem with Korean society's expectation of women's beauty because I believe it's not the factor of women's confidence but rather is oppressive factor against women as social expectation. Anyway.... I also want to add that if (as I believe it is) physical attractiveness can only capture attention but not maintain the attention, quantities of capturing attention doesn't necessarily lead to more possibilities of maintaining attention and finally meeting that special someone. Because it really isn't the quantities of capturing attention but rather it is qualities of maintaining attention that is important. I really hope I answered your question and suggestion Jamie the beautiful.  "If I could lead you into the promised land, i could lead you back out again."
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4/27/2008 12:28 am |
Women's physical beauty might capture men's attention however such physical beauty will not maintain men's attention. We may talk about the importance of character and personalities beside physical appearance but I believe, one of major factor that determines the chemistry between a man and a woman is deeper intuition of attraction. And it is not an issue of WHAT attracts someone but it is WHO attracts someone. So when one is deeply attracted to someone, one may never be able to point out the reason or aspects of a person that one is attracted to. As a German philosopher named Ludwig Wittgenstein once said "What cannot be spoken must pass to silence." .....just like the way I feel when ever I take a look at jamie's photo. "If I could lead you into the promised land, i could lead you back out again."
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4/26/2008 5:57 pm |
IS THIS WHERE I HAV TO SAY UR OUTWARD APPEARANCE IS JUST FINE???!!!~ so what crajee thangs have you been doing, lately?
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4/24/2008 8:28 pm |
Good to see you writing again. Good advices. 
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4/24/2008 6:53 pm |
UHHHHHH..... SWEETIE??? R U DOING BT???  OR IS IT UR ARROGANCE... THINKING THIS BLOG POST IS ABOUT U???  KEKEKE~ J/K!!!!!! And NO, i would not DO BT if he had the last hole on earth...keke. No offense, BT, hon.
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4/23/2008 1:23 am |
It always helps to smell nice too~
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4/23/2008 12:12 am |
Does Jamie like me now? lol
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4/22/2008 10:37 pm |
Hello Jamie, Simple list but you hit all the right answers Beautiful day to you
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