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Sex on the first date?  

xylyl22

5/2/2008 9:26 pm
Do you regret doing it?

How far is too far on a first date?

I’ll really Appreciate your advice & comments in this one.

Thanks
ren1957
344 posts 

5/3/2008 12:41 am

sex on first date..means your desperate or you just want a 1 nite stand..or see how many guys you can get to bed.

just my thought

1004AngelTears
217 posts 

5/3/2008 6:34 am

What DB and Ren say is true. but are we talking about someone you just met, say like a week or less? or is it someone that you have known a long time? someone that you have had long conversations with? Someone that has been a friend, and is now a love interest?

frenchguy38
813 posts 

5/3/2008 12:29 pm

Hello Xylyl,
Contrary to Korn, i mind. Having sex on the first date will "stamp" you as easy girl.
It will not bring trust from the male (if you have sex with me at first sight, it means you do the same with other guys too... may be the day before ?)
And reverse the situation, a male who will wait fews dates before having sex is worth more "consideration"... i think.

Have a beautiful day


xylyl22 replies on 5/3/2008 12:44 pm:
I appreciate the comment Thanks ^ ^
Have a nice day too
sweetpepe
1329 posts 

5/3/2008 4:57 pm

I don't put out on the first date.
I am shy.

PS -- nice pic. Don't listen to Juice.


xylyl22 replies on 5/3/2008 5:05 pm:
Thanks sweetpepe
OwenMcCaffrey
324 posts 

5/3/2008 7:34 pm

I disagree with some of the men especially. If a woman is madly in love with you then she might make love on the first date out of blind passion. Afterwards you might get married and live happily ever after.

I don't think you can judge how a woman behaves with everyone by how she behaves with you. If you are her first 'love' then why would she act the same with you as to other people?

Personally I am not interested in making love before marriage but i would not look down on someone i loved if they wanted to.

sweetpepe
1329 posts 

5/3/2008 8:57 pm

    Quoting OwenMcCaffrey:
    I disagree with some of the men especially. If a woman is madly in love with you then she might make love on the first date out of blind passion. Afterwards you might get married and live happily ever after.

    I don't think you can judge how a woman behaves with everyone by how she behaves with you. If you are her first 'love' then why would she act the same with you as to other people?

    Personally I am not interested in making love before marriage but i would not look down on someone i loved if they wanted to.
How can you be in love, madly in love, much less, before the first date? Are we talking about internet romance? That s a different category all to itself.

OwenMcCaffrey
324 posts 

5/4/2008 1:03 am

If you have known someone for a while as an aquaintance or collegue, or else gone through some life-changing experience together, before you went on a date with them, then you may have such a deeper bond than two people who met on a blind date.

sweetpepe
1329 posts 

5/4/2008 4:34 am

I see, I see.

sweetpepe
1329 posts 

5/6/2008 4:12 am

    Quoting NoniJuice4:
    How far is too far on a first date?

    As far as to the front door, exchange goodbyes and
    walk away...dignity intact.
less than 100 word post?
no quotes?
Juice, what s wrong with you?
*checking Noni's forehead....
lol...


xylyl22 replies on 5/6/2008 7:02 am:
You are very funny sweetpepe lol
Later......
sweetpepe
1329 posts 

5/6/2008 8:11 am

JUICE

When I said not to listen to you, I was referring to your saying that her initial pic was inappropriate. I liked the pic.
Your not being a Korean, well, that IS a handicap. lol...


xylyl22 replies on 5/6/2008 8:15 am:
"that IS a handicap"
I'm lost here guys lol
Na-jung-e bwae-yo!

xylyl22 replies on 5/14/2008 9:58 am:
Nice new picture Mr. "Sweetpepe"
Lincoln56
9 posts 

5/20/2008 9:10 pm

I think you should have sex before the date, that way there is no tension and you can get a feel for whats to come and have some hopes and expectation of the good times to come.

Seriously, I do not think, sex on the first date is a measure of the person. I have enjoyed lasting relationships which started from sex on the first or second date. If you are not comfortable, or if the "sex" is about dominance not sharing then that is not the best condition conducive for a relationship, if that is what you are looking for. If you looking for quickie or a good time with no strings then more power to you.

huanglu126
18 posts 

5/24/2008 9:52 am

You are very beautiful!

Will be paid a return


xylyl22 replies on 5/24/2008 12:42 pm:
Thank you

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