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What I Want In A Man!
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Oct 18, 2010 9:26 pm
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Original List: age (20 something)
1. Handsome
2. Charming
3. Financially successful
4. A caring listener
5. Witty
6.. In good shape
7. Dresses with style
8... Appreciates finer things
9. Full of thoughtful surprises
What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 32)
1. Nice looking
2. Opens car doors, holds chairs
3. Has enough money for a nice dinner
4. Listens more than talks
5. Laughs at my jokes
6. Carries bags of groceries with ease
7. Owns at least one tie
8. Appreciates a good home-cooked meal
9. Remembers birthdays and anniversaries
What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 42)
1. Not too ugly
2. Doesn't drive off until I'm in the car
3. Works steady - splurges on dinner out occasionally
4. Nods head when I'm talking
5. Usually remembers punch lines of jokes
6. Is in good enough shape to rearrange the furniture
7. Wears a shirt that covers his stomach
8.. Knows not to buy champagne with screw-top lids
9. Remembers to put the toilet seat down
10. Shaves most weekends
What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 52)
1. Keeps hair in nose and ears trimmed
2. Doesn't belch or scratch in public
3. Can tow a Caravan
4. Can cook a BBQ
5. Doesn't re-tell the same joke too many times
6. Appreciates a good TV dinner
7. Helps with the housework
What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 62)
1. Doesn't scare small children
2. Remembers where I have put things
3. Can still tow a van without causing chaos on the road
4. Only snores lightly when asleep
5. Remembers why he's laughing
6. Is in good enough shape to stand up by himself
7. Usually wears some clothes
8. Doesn't notice my facial hair and wrinkles
9. Remembers where he left his teeth
10. Stops trying to tell jokes
What I Want in a Man, Revised List (age 72)
1. Breathing.
2. Doesn't miss the toilet.
3. Remembers where we both live.
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10 Dating Truths You Can't Ignore
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Oct 3, 2010 1:08 am
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Sure, every guy is different, but when you've gone out with enough of them (and, ahem, we have) you start to see some patterns. Here, ten of Cosmo's incontrovertible dating dictums.
Know When to Let Go
Truth #1: You'll regret that "Just wanted to make sure you got my last message" follow-up to an e-mail, text, or voicemail.
Be Smart About Sex
Truth #2: If you don't feel comfortable having a conversation with a guy about sex — especially condoms — you shouldn't be getting busy with him.
Be a Romance Realist
Truth #3: If a man breaks up with you out of the blue, the out-of-the-blue part is really only on your end.
Follow His Lead
Truth #4: Just as it's best to wait to drop the L-bomb until your man does, let a guy change his Facebook status to "in a relationship" before you do.
Take Your Time
Truth #5: No woman in a healthy long-term relationship has ever said, "Gee, I really wish I'd slept with him sooner."
Think Ahead
Truth #6: Keeping a change of clothes at work in case of an emergency walk of shame isn't optimistic behavior … it's career-savvy.
Watch His Words
Truth #7: When a guy repeatedly refers to his exes as "crazy," "psycho," or "sluts," he will use those same words against you one day.
It Shouldn't Be All Work
Truth #8: If a relationship feels like too much work after the first month, it'll be 10 times harder a year from now.
Don't Date a Rater
Truth #9: A guy who rates you or other girls as a number from 1 to 10 is a loser, even if he gives you a 10. You're a woman, not county fair livestock.
Beware of Hot Air
Truth #10: A guy who talks about how skilled he is in the sack is like a man who brags about his money. Either way, he ain't got it. The kind of man you want to be with knows that actions speak louder than words. And thankfully, there are plenty of those types out there!
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How to Improve Your Self Confidence
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Sep 23, 2010 6:17 am
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If you've ever tried to attract a woman, then you know your success depends on your self-confidence.
The more confidence you have, the better off you'll be!
So what should you do if you lack self confidence around women?
Well here are a few tips you can use to raise your self-esteem:
1) Learn to relax
Before approaching women, put yourself in a relaxed state by paying attention to your posture and body. Then concentrate on a positive outcome from the conversation you're about to have. If you can remove all expectations you'll become more relaxed around women. So remind yourself that any negative outcome won't affect your life.
2) Try meditation and exercising
There are certain activities (meditation, yoga, and tai-chi) which will make you more relaxed. By practicing these exercises, you'll be able to put yourself into a positive state whenever you need it, including the times when you're trying to pick up women. So if you're serious about building self confidence, try one of these activities.
3) Use your strengths
One quick way to build self-confidence is to write down all of the qualities that make you a great person. Then whenever you're faced with a situation where you're not feeling confident, just recite the affirmations about your positive qualities.
By mentally reviewing your strengths, you'll be able to quickly ramp up your levels of confidence.
4) Positive at all times
It's widely known that guys who smile and have a positive outlook tend to attract more women.
So no matter what you're feeling inside, ALWAYS have a upbeat attitude and do your best to be a guy who women enjoy being around. What's funny is even when you *fake* a confident personality, you'll eventually develop this personality trait!
from http://koreanfriendfinder.com
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Techniques of Successful Internet Daters
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Jul 15, 2010 9:13 pm
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Techniques of Successful Internet Daters
Successful Internet daters love competition online, and actually
use the unsuccessful and inexperienced people to their advantage.
How do they do this?
For starters, they have their technique down pat, and it makes
them look really attractive. In contrast, inexperienced people can
appear unattractive, which in turn makes the successful people lookand sound even better than they really are!
There are a few rules to being successful at Internet dating:
Don’t do, say or show anything that makes you look generally
unattractive or stupid.
Know who and what you are looking for, and don’t be afraid to
say it.
Be persistent, and play the numbers game.
Stand out from the competition. Sounds easy and obvious, but this whole book is about getting it right. The detail that can go into getting it right will amaze you.
From http://koreanfriendfinder.com
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